4th Sunday of Easter
Cycle B
April 26, 2015 7:30am
and 9:00am
Saint Margaret Parish, Bel Air
Myself as Shepherd
I
have found today’s gospel speaking very directly to me.
I
as a pastor am to be a shepherd, a spiritual shepherd. As I thought about this during the past week,
I quickly became aware of some traits that have become very central to my sense
of priesthood and of shepherding.
So
I decided to share these thoughts with you today. And by the way, I don’t think I have ever
before done this so explicitly.
1. Listen, and Speak
Thoughtfully
The first thing I notice in this gospel is Jesus
saying: “I know mine and mine know me.”
Jesus speaks of a close relationship between himself
and the sheep. Well, for this to happen
here at Saint Margaret’s, I believe that I first have to listen.
I really have to appreciate your life, your joys and
your stresses. I have to listen to
your spiritual needs and to your thoughts about faith or the Church.
So I need to listen well, and then I need to speak
thoughtfully. By this I mean that I need
to remember that I am on the same human journey of life as anyone else.
And so, I need to be comfortable enough in my own
skin and with my own faith to share myself with you. I have to allow my faith and my humanity shape
what I do and how I do it as a pastor.
I need to speak more with you than to you. In this century and in this culture, I think
this needs to be the approach if, as Jesus says, “I know mine and mine know me.”
2. Be Positive
My next thought really flows from this.
I need to be positive.
Again, in this century and in our culture, I do not believe that being negative
will take us anywhere.
I believe that preoccupation with sin and evil, whether in
us as persons or in our world, isn’t really very helpful. In fact, it may well be counter-productive.
I believe it is better and maybe even more challenging to
be positive and constructive. I believe
that a shepherd needs to be positive about spirituality.
It is important for me to reflect with you on how we can
positively relate to the Lord Jesus and how we can come to spiritual maturity. In the past month, I read a book entitled, “The 7 Keys to Spiritual Wellness.”
The title of this book really reflects how I see my role –
lifting up a positive message of spiritual growth and wellness. This is what I believe we need to bring to
our young people and in fact to everyone in today’s pluralistic and diverse
culture.
3. Welcome and
Include
The last thing I want to share
is that I, as a shepherd, need to welcome and include.
Jesus says today, “I have other sheep that do not belong to
this fold.” Jesus is clear that they
are still his sheep.
In many other places in the
gospel, he is clear that he welcomes and includes everyone. Today, this might be Catholics who do not
come to Mass often or those who have pretty much dropped out of the Church.
So, maybe parents present a baby
for baptism and they are not practicing their faith very well. No question, I want them to practice their
faith and come to Mass.
But instead of making that a
pre-condition, I welcome them and we work together and baptize their baby. I believe this way of shepherding has a far
better chance of leading them closer to the Lord.
Or maybe a couple comes to be
married and they are already living together.
I and we all know our Church teaching that this level of intimacy should
be reserved for marriage.
But instead of turning them away
and putting them down, I rejoice that they want to be married in the Church and
we proceed to make that happen. And once
again, I believe that this way of shepherding has a far better chance of
leading them closer to the Lord.
I am convinced that this
approach is key to being a 21st century shepherd. And by the way, it is not a watered-down
approach to faith, but rather a more authentic and even more challenging way of
living it.
Conclusion
There are other things I could
say but these are some of the primary traits I try to embrace in being a
shepherd today.
1) Listen, and speak thoughtfully. 2) Be positive. 3) Welcome and include.