Sunday, February 12, 2023

5th Sunday of Ordinary Time, Cycle A - February 5, 2023

 5th Sunday in Ordinary Time

Cycle A

February 5, 2023        5pm 

Our Lady of Grace Parish, Parkton 

 

Salt in Food

 

I seldom add salt to food.

 

We all know what the medical profession says about limiting the amount of sodium in our diet. Most food needs some salt, but I rarely add more to what is already in it.

 

The exception is that every August, I find myself using the saltshaker. I enjoy a simple tomato sandwich: slices of vine-ripe tomato, mayonnaise on the bread, a slice of cheddar cheese, and definitely a dash of salt on the tomato.

 

The salt brings out the wonderful taste of the tomato. It just isn’t quite as good without the salt.

 

Those who like to cook tell me how important salt is. Just the right amount brings out the full flavor of the beef or green beans, but too much salt can ruin the taste.

 

We Are Salt

 

Our use of salt on food helps us to appreciate today’s gospel.

 

Jesus tells us that we are “the salt of the earth.” The idea is that we are to flavor and enhance the world.

 

Just as salt does for food, we are to bring out the best in those around us. So, parents are salt by teaching their children simple things like saying “Please” or “Thank you” or by helping them with a science project or something like that.  

 

Teachers and guidance counselors are salt by guiding young people into the extra-curriculars that will develop them well – like dance, music, soccer, basketball, whatever. We can be salt by listening carefully to a spouse or friend, helping them to clarify what their upset is all about, and then assisting them in figuring out how they might best express themselves.

 

As I say all of this, it is also important to remember that ordinary salt is something we seldom notice. We never say: “Wow, that salt really tastes good!”

 

Instead, we say: “That fried chicken was great!” If it is the right amount, the salt enhances and draws the best out of the food, but draws no attention to itself.

 

That is an important feature of salt. Jesus wants us to have this same feature.

 

We Are Light

 

Jesus also tells us that we are to be “the light of the world.”  

 

Well, we don’t sit and look at a light bulb, and we should not look directly at the sun. Instead, we look at what light illumines.

 

So, something like salt, as light we are not to be the center of attention. Instead, we are to light up what is beyond us and enable others to see certain things.

 

Maybe it is the light of faith itself when we try to share parts of our faith and faith practice with our children. Maybe it is the light of an insight, when we try to guide a young adult on a relationship issue. 

 

Maybe it is pointing out the light instead of cursing the darkness. Instead of just harping on the bad things in our society and world, we can highlight persons who give generously of their time for aging parents or for Habitat for Humanity and things like that.

 

Pope Francis once gave an interview to a journalist who is a non-believer, an agnostic. And the Pope never put him down for not believing.

 

Instead, he affirmed the good things this man is doing and said we meet and are one in doing good. That’s the Pope’s way to be light in today’s world, and it is a good example for us, maybe in dealing with a son or daughter or others who no longer practice their faith.

 

Conclusion

 

One more thought. Too much salt can ruin food and too much light can blind us. 

 

In trying to be salt and light for others, we need to be careful. Pushing too much by being too much salt or too much light can hurt relationships and just push others away from what we would like them to have.     

 

So, with that caution, Jesus uses some simple images to describe how he wants us to be his disciples. Both salt and light focus beyond themselves, not on themselves.

 

And both are very positive in the way they act. Helpful images and lessons for us today!

3rd Sunday of Ordinary Time, Cycle A - January 22, 2023

 3rd Sunday in Ordinary Time

Cycle A

January 22, 2023 – 5pm and 8:30am    

Our Lady of Grace Saint Parish, Parkton 

 

The Holocaust Museum: Lessons

 

Several years ago, I visited the Holocaust Memorial Museum in Washington. Probably many of you have been there. 

 

As you know, the Museum is a memorial especially to the Jewish victims of the Holocaust in the 1940s. This genocide by the Nazis killed 6 million Jews. 

 

The Holocaust eventually included others, like citizens of Poland and the Soviet Union, gypsies, homosexual and disabled persons, and others. The Nazis exterminated a total of 11 million people.  

 

As I slowly walked through the Museum, I found myself sad, almost overwhelmed. At times I became aware that I was just shaking my head “No!” in disbelief. 

 

Now, I am recalling this experience in view of the increasing number of anti-Semitic incidents in our country. Reports tell us that in the year 2021, there were 2,700 anti-Semitic incidents of harassment, assault, and vandalism. 

 

This was the highest annual number ever reported. It represents an increase of 34% over the prior year, 2020. 

 

I think about this in relation to today’s gospel. Jesus is the “great light” foretold by the prophets.

 

We, as disciples and persons of faith, are also to be a light in our world. One thing this must mean is that we are alert to things like anti-Semitism and that we ourselves do not participate in this.

 

We need to be a light in darkness. So, with this in mind, I have two reflections. 

 

1.    Words Are Powerful 

 

First, our words are powerful.

 

The words we speak and the words we write or text or email – these can be very powerful. We need to be very aware of this.

 

For example, have you ever said something and the moment it is out of your mouth, you wish you could take it back? Maybe in frustration, we said to a teenager: “You’re never going to amount to anything.”

 

Or to someone: “You’re a lazy waste of time!” Or: “You’re a good-for-nothing blankedy blank.”

 

Our words can help a person develop and grow. Or they can freeze a person right where they are and even send them backwards.

 

Our words can build up self-esteem and self-confidence. Or they can tear it down and injure someone for a lifetime.

 

Our words can give positive vision to a group or entire race of people. Or they can lead those same people into destructive ways.

 

So, I am suggesting, we have to pause, reflect, and go within ourselves before we speak. We have to get in touch with our true inner self and with God who is within us.

 

We have to consider the effects of our words for today and tomorrow and the future. And then, we have to decide what to say and when to say it and how to say it.

 

So, knowing that our words have such power is very important. We need to use our words in a thoughtful way.

 

2.    Negative Stereotypes Are Destructive 

 

My second reflection is related to the first and really flows from it.

 

Negative stereotyping is always destructive. And it is always wrong.

 

This is what happened in Nazi Germany and what caused the Holocaust. Thoughtless and hurtful words were applied to the Jews.  

 

These words and labels led to negative stereotyping. In that instance, we know the horrific results.

 

Some scholars tell us that negative stereotyping arises from the human temptation to scapegoat. We unfairly blame another person or an entire category of persons for our problems and that’s what scapegoating is.

 

So, we need to resist negative stereotyping of others. Today, it might be directed to Jews or to Hispanic immigrants, to women or to African Americans, to LGBTQ persons or to Muslims.

 

We need to have the inner strength not to participate in this. In fact, we need to label it as morally wrong.   

 

And in doing that, we will be a light to the world and really living our faith in Jesus Christ. We will be a light in darkness. 

 

And we will be doing this by resisting hateful words and negative stereotyping.  We will do this by respecting others as persons with feelings and needs and hopes much like our own.