Sunday, August 20, 2023

20th Sunday of Ordinary Time, Cycle A - August 20, 2023

 20th Sunday in Ordinary Time

Cycle A

August 20, 2023         

Our Lady of Grace Parish, Parkton – 5pm  

 

“Somos personas” 

 

There is a magazine called Spirituality and Health.

 

In its current issue, the July/August issue, a writer named Paul Sutherland tells an inspiring story. He says that he and his family were on vacation and heading to a beach in Nicaragua. 

 

They were driving in their van and came to a narrow street in the Nicaraguan village of Santa Teresa. And suddenly, THUD!

 

One of the front tires went down into an uncovered drainage hole. Some men from the village saw what happened and came over to help Paul push the van.

 

But it wouldn’t budge. Sutherland was trying to figure out what to do when a farmer drove up on a tractor. 

 

The farmer pulled ahead of the van and stopped in the middle of the narrow street. Then he looked under the van and, without saying a word, walked to a nearby shop and came back with some rope. 

 

The farmer tied one end of the rope around the van’s chassis and then attached the other end to a chain that he had with the tractor. Within a minute, he pulled the van out of the drainage hole. 

 

Paul Sutherland and his wife and children were overcome with gratitude. He said, “Gracias! Thank you! Gracias!”

 

Sutherland tried to hand the farmer some money. But the farmer refused and said, “Somos personas!”

 

Sutherland said, “This is for you and your family.” But again, the farmer refused to take the money and just said, “Somos personas!”

 

When Paul and his family got back in the van, his daughter asked, “Dad, do you know what he was saying?” Paul responded, “No!”

 

“Dad, he was saying, ‘We are people.’ He was saying we are the same, we are all people, persons. 

 

“We are here to help one another. We are people, persons. ‘Somos personas.’”     

        

Are We All People? 

 

In today’s gospel, we see this same vision eventually emerge.

 

A Canaanite woman comes up to Jesus and begs him to heal her daughter. There are big differences between this woman and Jesus and his disciples.

 

First, there is gender. In that time and place, women were treated as second-class at best, and they were not even to be talked to unless they were accompanied by their husband.

 

Then, there is religion. This woman is not a Jew, and that’s why she is called a “dog” – the very demeaning expression of that day for all non-Jews.

 

Next, there is culture. This woman is of a different culture and probably dresses differently and has different social customs. 

 

And finally, there is nationality. This woman is a Canaanite, and they are viewed as enemies.

 

Jesus’ Ultimate Response: Yes 

 

So, Jesus’ first two responses to the woman are very off-putting, to say the least. 

 

He begins by saying that his mission is only to the house of Israel – to the Jews. And then he says that it is not right to give the food of the children – meaning the Jews – to the dogs – there’s that awful expression again.

 

There could be two reasons for these responses from Jesus. One, even though he is God or the Son of God on this earth, he is human. 

 

And, as human, maybe even Jesus had to work through the prejudices and human barriers that existed. The other possibility is that Jesus was just setting up the disciples for what he was going to do.

 

He was voicing the prejudices and barriers that he knew they had. He was setting them up as a contrast with how he would end up respecting and caring for this woman and her daughter. 

 

“Somos Personas” 

 

So, in Spanish, “Somos personas.”

 

“We are people. We are persons.” 

 

Jesus, today, something like that Central American farmer, opens our minds and hearts to see one another as God sees us – regardless of differences. Being a follower of Jesus demands that we look beyond labels and stereotypes and prejudices and barriers. 

 

It demands that we see everyone as a child of God, as brother and sister. “Somos personas.”  

 

 

 

Saturday, August 19, 2023

19th Sunday of Ordinary Time, Cycle A - August 13, 2023

 19th Sunday in Ordinary Time

Cycle A

August 13, 2023         

Our Lady of Grace Parish, Parkton – 5pm  

 

Physical Balance

 

Five years ago, I participated in a strength and balance class at a fitness center.

 

One of the balance exercises was to stand on one foot. We were to concentrate on placing all of our weight on one foot – let’s say my left foot.

 

Then we were slowly to raise the right foot about six inches off of the floor, and touch the side of our left leg with the right foot. We were to try to stand that way, with all weight on one foot for about ten seconds.  

 

But, to succeed in doing this, the trainer advised us not to look at ourselves or others in the mirror or at anything in motion. Instead, we were to keep our eyes focused on a fixed, still point on the floor.

 

The reason is that if we were looking at something or someone that was moving, we would move too and would not keep our balance. So, keeping my eyes focused on that fixed, still point helped me to maintain my balance standing on one foot.  

 

Peter’s Balance in the Storm 

 

Well, I am not here today to lead us in exercises for physical balance – unless you would all like to stand and give this a try!

 

I am suggesting that the trainer’s guidance is also excellent spiritual guidance. Look what happens to Peter in today’s gospel.

 

Peter steps out of the boat to walk on the water. At first, his eyes are on Jesus, and he is okay.

 

But then, Peter takes his eyes off of Jesus and gets focused on the wind and the waves. He gets focused on the storm and quickly starts to sink. 

 

The point is that when Peter keeps his eyes focused on Jesus – the fixed or still point – when Peter keeps his eyes there, he keeps his balance and is dealing fine with the storm. But when he takes his eyes off of Jesus, he’s in trouble.  

 

Our Storms 

 

I believe that there are storms in all our lives – no exceptions!

 

For me, one that I remember very well is when I was thirty years old.  I had been a priest for four years and seemed to be doing well.

 

But all of a sudden, I began seriously questioning my vocation. Eventually things got sorted out and resolved, but wow, that was quite a storm for me for the better part of a year.

 

There are lots of other possible storms. Waiting for a doctor’s report about a possible cancer, a heart attack, the death of your husband, wife, child, or parent, an addiction to alcohol, drugs, or gambling, the loss of a job, the break-up of a marriage, and on it goes.

 

Our Balance in Storms 

 

I believe that keeping our eyes focused on Jesus in these storms is crucial.

 

We need to keep our eyes on Jesus as our fixed or still point. He will help us to keep our spiritual balance and get through the storms.

 

Practically speaking, I offer two recommendations to help with this. First, at the beginning of each day, pray. 

 

It can be your own prayer, right from your heart. It can be a prayer you have learned or a prayer in a prayerbook.

 

It can be one of the psalms or a short passage from one of the gospels. It doesn’t have to be long – maybe five minutes or even less.

 

But every day – no exceptions – pray in the morning. And then, second, think of one word or a phrase that you can repeat throughout the day – maybe from your prayer or maybe from the Scripture.

 

For example: “Jesus, be with me.” Or “I am with you always.” Or “Do not be afraid” – as Jesus says to the disciples in todays’ gospel.

 

They are just examples. The idea is to pick a word or phrase, and then, repeat it throughout the day – wherever you are, whatever you are doing.

 

It is a good way to keep our eyes on Jesus as the fixed or still point of our lives. It is a good way to keep our balance and get through the storms of life.